Well before I go into what I am so angry about let me first say that I need you guys to please know the following will have some explicit words and for that I am sorry. I just really need to vent and get this shit off my chest. Thanks in advance :)
So we had court yesterday against my husbands ex-wife. We have been going now for what seems like forever, but as of late it is due to her lying to obtain federal money. She went and got welfare benefits back last year and at the time we had my husbands daughter, but did her mother think about it being fraud? oh, no she didn't give 2 shits, all she seen was a way to support her dope habit. So of course the department of child support got involved and when we told them that we had one of the kids and that a grandmother had the other one for the time in question they decided we needed witnesses and a paper trail and so forth so we brought all that to court yesterday when we went. He went in front of the judge and laid it all out plus we had witness testimony also. So one would think that those people had big enough brains in their damn heads to see that she was a fucking liar and that she illegally obtained the funds, and so they did see that but then the child support lawyer after hanging my husbands daughter up on her testimony and catching her in lies decided that he would stop the proceedings right then and there and told the judge straight up that he couldn't get my husband on the grounds he had due to his lying child. So in his anger I'm guessing he decided that if he couldn't make him pay back the money that that bitch went and illegally got then he would make him back up to the beginning of this year and pay child support, so off the jump that puts my husband owing right at $6,000.00 in back support plus a hefty $700.00 a month, mind you he and I have my two kids at home too but when we tried to tell them that all they said was until the adoption of my kids is finalized by the court and my husband (Which is all done except the last court date mind you, their father signed his rights over to my husband back in the spring and we have been waiting on a court date since then.) then they don't count, and that I needed to get a job because it was not his responsibility to take care of my kids. When they said I needed a job he asked them why his ex-wife didn't have to work to support her kids, plus she has a husband who works and makes damn good money. The child support man simply states we gave her a job on paper but we still have you to take care of 74% of the children's needs. Which like my husband said he has no issues with paying support for his kids, (however ungrateful and assholeish they may be) but that he wanted to know how they thought he was gonna survive on what little income they left him after taking the money straight out of his pay check.
My issue is I can't seem to understand how this bitch he had his kids with is above the law. She doesn't take care of her kids and throws them down on whom ever is available at the time and yet they don't get her for neglect or abandonment, and then she commits welfare fraud and still out walking around with not so much as a word said to her. Maybe I'm crazy and it's not what it seems but to me I think she should have to answer for the shit she does and gets away with just like every other person who breaks the law.
Insight into how to calm myself down and not beat the living shit out of this bitch would be greatly appreciated. Thanks again for reading and sorry again for all the wordy durds..lol......
Love and Light and Goddess Bless
Earthchild )O( Shawna
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